Chasing him would only end in heartbreak — and drama. Missing out on the chance to date him might feel like the end of the world right now, but you cannot allow your insecurities to get the best of you. His opinion is only one opinion. There are plenty of other people who would love to get to know you.
"I'm in a relationship but love and am attracted to someone else"
My heart goes out to anyone who is still in love with their ex but their ex is already dating someone else. Dumpers often start dating again not too long after the breakup so chances are, you are going to feel insignificant when it happens. Since it can take over 8 months to get over your ex so he or she will likely date someone else during that time span. Does my ex have no shame? Why would my ex give up so quickly and start dating someone else?
Is Your Spouse in Love With Someone Else? Or Is It Limerence?
So can you really match up to him? Maybe, maybe not. Has who charm a girl into liking you ]. You know, at times, unknown to you, your flirty someone could cross borders and you may end up describing how good you can wiggle your tongue between the crack of your folded elbow!
Being in a committed, healthy relationship can be great, but it can also come with some hurdles you have to overcome. We're human, and it's highly likely we're going find other people attractive, people that aren't our partner. I guess it's how we deal with that attraction or crush that's important.