You've had your suspicions. Maybe you've noticed your partner looking at people of the same gender in a different way. Then you discover the truth: your spouse or partner is gay. You might be left feeling like your relationship has been turned upside down, and as your partner comes out, you find yourself reeling.
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As I think back on the past 24 years of providing couples counseling for gay male relationships, I sometimes get asked what the differences are that I see in general in gay male relationships that are again, in general , different from straight relationships. These are the issues that come up repeatedly in couples counseling sessions:. Statistically, white men tend to be relatively high earners. The sexism that women only earn a portion of what men earn, for the same work, extends to both gay men and straight men. Gay men of color face a dual challenge in managing social reactions and pressures from being both gay and people of color, and also gender expectations.