Knowing exactly what you want can be considered a good thing. Having a vision of what your future is like is comforting, after all. But micromanaging every detail of If you feel like you're showing signs that you might be a control freak , there are ways to slow down the obsessive behavior once and for all.
Let me start out by saying I have control issues. I just love having a plan; I enjoy feeling prepared, and I really like the illusion of feeling somewhat in control. A control freak on the other hand, is someone who feels an overwhelming need to exercise control not only over themselves but others as well. They have to take command of every situation which is good in times of disaster or emergency, but can be aggravating in less stressful times. The best way I can describe a control freak is as the opposite of laid-back and easy-going. Control freaks control, manipulate, and micromanage. Some people have very little patience for control freaks and their constant know-it-all attitudes, their strict routines, and the way they obsess and plan every event down to the last detail.
We date for a reason and that is to find our absolute match. We may end up dating what seems like the perfect person for us. In the beginning, that is.
People tend not to show their toxic behavior right away, which can leave us dating a stranger. Some people get into a relationship to only later find out that they are dating a complete control freak. Thankfully, there are early warning signs for you to keep an eye out for, just in case you feel that you have entered into a relationship with someone who is a control freak. For most people, their phone is a pretty private place. They may look through your messages and apps.